What Everyone Ought To Know About Porn (Is Porn Bad?)

Is Porn Bad?

I’ve been reading quite a lot on the topic of sex and sexual energy lately and I’ve found that some ways by which we approach sexuality are not exactly what they should be. For example, women are sexually repressed and judged whenever they sleep around (even if they don’t have a relationship) and men are sexually frustrated caused by a lack of sexual satisfaction in their personal life.

Sex is still (even in this age) a controversial topic. While in fact it is one of our most basic desires. Judging, suppressing and hiding this important aspect of our lives under a load of superficial BS only makes the problem worse. Sexual interest is something that should be freely encouraged. The days where we only had sex for procreation are loooong gone. So drop the

Therefore we start to resort to quick, instant forms of gratification! Namely Porn. One of the most popular search terms in google these days;is porn bad trend

 

What’s Wrong With Porn?

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critical look on porn necessary?

Porn is pretty much made for men only. They accentuate everything that men these days think is “the ideal” of what women want. Massive penises, constant moaning and mostly focused on penetration. It’s basically an ego-trip for men to satisfy their basic instincts (in an unnatural way). It creates a super-high standard and certain level of expectancy from both sides. Which is ridiculous to say the least.

We are provided with this quote-on-quote “idealized” perspective of what sex is about.But plainly;

porn is just fake.

The only things that porn provides is;

a) Instant Sexual Gratification
b) Wrong image of what “real” sex is about

 

Why Is This Wrong?

Sexual satisfaction shouldn’t be achieved virtually but only in reality. Instant sexual satisfaction has become so easily accessible through the internet that modern society has become obsessed by it. We’ve stopped caring about the real thing and have become so desensitized about sex that it has led to unnatural extremes which are continuously going to get worse if we don’t deal more consciously with the way we approach our sexuality.

In some countries and with some men that has taken a heavy toll. They’ve become so addicted to instant gratification and masturbation that they just can’t get turned on by “normal” girls at all.

They’ve become convinced that porn and masturbation is better than the real thing. Women have become less attractive to them because of the desensitizing effect porn has had on them.

Boys/men these days get introduced to virtual sex before they experience real sex and IMO that is pretty disturbing. Therefore we should focus on educating children from a young age on the effects that porn can have on the image they have of sex.

They need to realize that porn, in essence is fake. If you have the time and are interested, I’ve included an interesting documentary about porn and its effects on our youth.;

Energy

Another reason why porn is not good for you is because excessive masturbation (read: overstimulation) leads to a loss of energy. Like I already mentioned in an earlier article about Sexual Energy is that this can lead to chronic fatigue and even depression. (At least from my experience)

I believe in the fact that when a man comes in a woman he basically gives her his “life energy”. How cliché this may sound, it is what I’ve experienced in the past. I’m not a fan of overly holistic and spiritual approaches to life but I believe there’s some truth to be found in those ideologies.

I pretty much feel exhausted and empty when I’ve had one to many orgasms from sex. (and masturbation)

Essence

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Anyway, what should you take away from this article? Accept the fact that most of the porn out there is fake and that it desensitizes us from the real thing. Keep yourself under control by practicing some sexual energy cultivation (ejaculating less frequently). You’ll feel much more energized and driven to work towards your goals.

That’s all I have to say for today on this topic! More coming soon since I’m reading a quite interesting book on this titled Secrets Of Sexual Ecstasy“. You can download/read it for free at the link provided above
Take care!

Love,

Simon

Sources
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4 Comments

  1. Hello Simon,the documentary about porn on youtube does not exist anymore. Could you write the title of it please?

  2. I see eye to eye with you on what to emphasize with this porn trouble. Very funny and educational

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